On Breaking Up
I have encountered so many relationship it’s in different facet some last some are just mere façade of true identity of one person.
Anyway, this is not what I want to tackle about I had read so many stories about love some are successfully last while the other had to go on in this excruciating pain. But why we women have to suffer on this so-called break-up when we have the right to be happy. We can be happy why not I guess it’s depend on how we accepted the situation after the break up or it’s depend on the reason of break up. Mostly, we cried over spilled milk who don’t I even did the same way maybe for 10 years I suffered to what so-called heartbreak dilemma. Pain left a scar for so many years before I overcome the so-called break up. Now that I entered into different facet of relationship not that I immune of whatsoever but I am more open-minded about it that if we enter into a relationship we have to be ready about the future it maybe good or bad.
Sometimes we end up pitying ourselves and our never ending why. Why it has to be this way? Why it didn’t work out? Now I tried to avoid questioning myself when my relationship end up I don’t dwell on it more and analyze of what I had done wrong, maybe it so happen that we didn’t really meant us for each other. In that way I avoid to be confuse and in pain. I don’t have grudges, I’m relief, relax and happy.
Now it opens my mind that being happy is depend on us, not on other shoulders.
Ciao
19/10/08
I have encountered so many relationship it’s in different facet some last some are just mere façade of true identity of one person.
Anyway, this is not what I want to tackle about I had read so many stories about love some are successfully last while the other had to go on in this excruciating pain. But why we women have to suffer on this so-called break-up when we have the right to be happy. We can be happy why not I guess it’s depend on how we accepted the situation after the break up or it’s depend on the reason of break up. Mostly, we cried over spilled milk who don’t I even did the same way maybe for 10 years I suffered to what so-called heartbreak dilemma. Pain left a scar for so many years before I overcome the so-called break up. Now that I entered into different facet of relationship not that I immune of whatsoever but I am more open-minded about it that if we enter into a relationship we have to be ready about the future it maybe good or bad.
Sometimes we end up pitying ourselves and our never ending why. Why it has to be this way? Why it didn’t work out? Now I tried to avoid questioning myself when my relationship end up I don’t dwell on it more and analyze of what I had done wrong, maybe it so happen that we didn’t really meant us for each other. In that way I avoid to be confuse and in pain. I don’t have grudges, I’m relief, relax and happy.
Now it opens my mind that being happy is depend on us, not on other shoulders.
Ciao
19/10/08